Thursday, April 08, 2004
Staying out of transportation arrangements
Apr 08 2004 12:20 pm
>Well, it depends why he moved.
Well, but it really doesn't. What it depends on more than anything is the ability and willingness of the person who *didn't* move to shell out the money. If they're able and willing, great. If they're not willing or not able, then it's on the person who moved.
Oh, good. Things have been slow here, and I don't think we've had a good fight about this subject in years. We all know I moved. 3000 miles. What I'm not sure we've discussed is that my ex pays all transportation for Lee.
We didn't decide that as a policy matter. But their visitation was their business. I didn't want to be fighting with my ex about it. He has a life; the dates and arrival times should suit him. I can't read his mind, and I don't maintain his calendar. So he had to make the arrangements. I don't care if he makes plans 6 months in advance and pays $200 or the day before and pays $1200. I don't even know.
jane
