Thursday, January 22, 2004
We're the grown ups now
Jan 22 2004 4:04 pm
I understand that work requirements get in the way of things. But it's not Sheila's job that is causing the problems, it's not Sheila's fault that he's unable to see the kids when he's scheduled to and I don't particularly see that it's Sheila's responsibility
I'm with you right up to there.
to give up what she wants to do with the kids because of a job that's not even hers.
It's Sheila's responsibility to raise her kids. All I'm saying is to decide this as a parent. Do what's best for your kids. Don't get caught up in whether he's a narcissistic asshole or you're a bitch. We're the grown ups now.
And (in an attempt to head of the traditional rewriting of the the OP) yes, Sheila does have needs too. Yes, they are important, too. That just wasn't the question here.
jane
