Jane's Posts

Sep 11 1998 12:00 am

[I don't know BM, but you would have to be pretty dumb to think you could collect AFDC for kids you don't have custody of.]

Ah, yes, but if you *used* to have custody, you have a lovely court order granting you custody, so all you have to do is present it, and until the Dad presents the overturning document - or the State does a records check - you have your proof. Believe me, my husband's ex has been waving that old document around herself... SSM

Well, your case is a little different. You have that whole BPD thing going on. Even without the money, she seems to have some need to prove that she is still the primary caregiver. I bet she thinks of the current custody decree as a ridiculous temporary situation (brought on by your vicious lies). BTW, does she still try to be a stay at home mom to the kids who live with you?

jane